A City Boy and The Little Treehouse In the Woods

Bear likes to create things.

Without my permission.

This weekend I found a tiny crockpot plugged up in his room where he was melting crayons and coconut oil, oh, don't forget the essential oils! A recipe he found on Pinterest to make me homemade lipstick.

Oh my.

This kid! I love him. He was so excited about making me lipstick and of course, you have to wear it because he worked so hard and is so proud of it. And he did a great job.

Except it was Eggplant Purple.

I walked around looking like Joan Jett all day.

The deer are everywhere around here! Love them!

So when Bear kept asking his dad to build a treehouse this summer, Hubby thought it would be the perfect project to help him build and get some of that creative energy out. Little B (my 20 year old who isn't little anymore) helped as well..and we felt a little guilty since he had also always wanted a treehouse, but this is the first time we've lived in the woods and actually had trees. So it's for the both of them, even though Little B is about to be living on his own, lol.

They worked and worked. Mainly Hubby worked and the two kids would meander in and out, with Little B only here occasionally and Bear working as long as his little attention span would allow.

Finally the day came! It was done! Bear spent the first few days in there continually, he loved it!

He brought his friends over to see it!

He listened to music in there!

He had decorating plans for it! (That's my boy!) 

Then he left a little food up there...

We had told him animals would move in if he left food up there.

And...it got really windy.

Hubby had built it (he has been in construction most of his life, so he knows what he's doing), so that it would give a little with the movement of the trees.

 It swayed just a bit.

It creaked a little.

The metal roof made a LOT of noise as the acorns started falling from the trees above.

It sounded like gunshots.

Raccoon feast?

So once Bear climbed up there and he was convinced raccoons had just left and were coming back any minute, the creaking meant the whole thing was falling down and the noisy acorns hitting the roof were gunfire, he was outta there. He's not returned in quite a while.

Sigh.

And as I sit here shaking my head with my rock-n-roll lipstick on, I think...

Treehouse for sale. 

Love,

Elizabeth

LAST ONE...ELLIE'S HALLOWEEN COSTUME CHOICE #3

(the next post will feature all three, then I'd love to hear which one is your fav!)

You about have to be a Viking to survive this bunch, but I love those guys.

Judy Blume, Raina Telgemeier and Book Banning

If this is your first time here, Welcome! Ellie & Elizabeth is a lifestyle blog where I (I'm Elizabeth, and Ellie is the tiny, sweetest dog ever) discuss french country, farmhouse style decorating while revealing what I'm doing in my own home. Faith, recipes and family friendly topics are also thrown in there, which is what we have today. You'll meet my other half, Ellie the Havanese, at the end of each post!

 I'm so glad you are here! On with the story!

FALL BREAK AND THE CONTROVERSY

During Fall Break, Hubby and I found ourselves four hours from home with our children, listening to our youngest son's favorite author, Raina Telgemeier, announce that her books had been banned in some places. 

SCREECH....STOP RIGHT THERE...SAY WHAT??? 

Hubby and I looked at each other with raised eyebrows. Oh great, what in the world has my kid been reading? And we brought him here to meet her at this book signing...I mean, I thumbed through the book SMILE and it was just about a kid getting her teeth knocked out when she tripped... ???

Raina Telgemeier's books (SMILE, DRAMA, GHOSTS) are written as novel length comic books, also known as graphic novels, and were mostly purchased for Bear, our fifth grader, through the school's Scholastic book orders. They are also on the list of books he is to read to get points for the reading program at school. I never dreamed there was content in them that could be banned...sigh. When we looked over at Bear, he just grinned like the cat that had swallowed the canary. He clearly knew there was questionable content in there. *If you don't know Bear's mischievous side, read a proper introduction here. Let's just say that I have a lot of gray hair, but he and my oldest son are also pretty hilarious.

We are trying so hard to be good parents and it seems like everything out there that is promoted toward children anymore goes against what we are trying to teach. 

Then I remembered myself at his age, my favorite author, Judy Blume, and her banned books. You couldn't have pried her books from my little grade school hands without a fight.

Hmmm. 

I was a bookworm and read every one of her books.  It was the early 80's, Izod was a big deal and so was The Official Preppy Handbook, but Judy Blume was where it was at.  Blubber stands out the most in my mind because it was the first one I ever read. It was real, raw and it detailed every kid's fear of being the one in the class who was picked on. I don't remember all the situations in the book and I haven't read it since, but I later learned that Judy Blume's books were banned from some libraries. Thankfully, they weren't banned at my house! I can't imagine my childhood without her. Her books were the closest thing to the internet that we had back then. They were written about subjects that no one talked about and everyone I knew devoured them as soon as they could get a hold of one. I don't know if she did book tours but I would have been thrilled to meet her back then and even today.

This place! Gorgeous!

Reading books are still big deal at our house nowadays, so when Bear's all time favorite author was featured at a discussion/book signing event last weekend, I knew we had to go. I didn't tell him ahead of time because like any kid, he can drive me a little crazy when he's anticipating something. Are we there yet? Do you think she'll be nice or ? Oh my gosh, this is cool...Do you think I'll have to wait in line because I don't like to wait in line... He was so excited when he finally realized why we were going on the road trip.

This was a book lover's dream. 

The event was held at the Columbus Metropolitan Library and it was AMAZING! Our little Kentucky town has a tiny library which is nice but wowsa, this was over the top. It was a gorgeous, multilevel building and I kind of just wanted to move right in. It even had a coffee shop and, wait for it, copies upon copies of the same book...Now I know that might be the norm for you big city folks, but over here in the country, we normally get one book, possibly two and definitely no coffee.

Raina drawing a character from her latest book, GHOST. Sorry, my cell phone pics are a little grainy.

Despite learning of the book banning ordeal, we really enjoyed the day and hearing Raina speak with the author that inspired her, Jeff Smith (he writes 'Bone,' though we aren't familiar with his writing). Although I still want to know why her books were banned, I think if my child is that interested in the controversial content, it probably needs to be discussed at home, not banned and put away as if it's not happening out there in the real world. Putting my head in the sand doesn't mean my child and others aren't dealing with subjects that may be uncomfortable for me to discuss. Most importantly though, I do want to make sure my values are taught to my kids instead of a point of view that I don't agree with. If Raina is to my son like Judy Blume was to me, then I'll have to investigate further and not just squash his love of reading.

Bear with Jeff Smith, who interviewed Raina. Seemed like a super nice guy. Um, apparently his work was banned too, Good times.

Everything in the early 80's just seemed easier. To be ten again...How tough could the issues have been when all you were worried about was what color the little alligator was on your Izod shirt?  With those clogs? Or was it jelly shoes? All snuggled up on a rainy day, reading Judy Blume.

What do you think? Did you love Judy Blume like me?  Would you let your child read books that have been banned? Should books ever be banned? Let me hear from you! 

Love,

Elizabeth

HELP PICK ELLIE'S HALLOWEEN COSTUME

CHOICE #2

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This is Bear's pick.

A pig.

For real. I mean, I don't even eat that much.

Baby pigs are all the rage though, and pink is my color.